LiFe oF gUohU|...cHp 164
it really had me in awe that how amazing the word conversation come to means and the topics of conversation. and all that relates to a conversation, the ongoing process of a conversation, to carry on a conversation, to end off one. i mean, this thing call coversation by itself it truely amazing. to the very least, it amazes me a lot.
i often wonder how one can proclaim himself as a great conversationist. and can one actually talks abt everything under the sun? i mean, there countless topics in the word to talk abt. surely u can't have a grasp of what is everything is all abt, can u? i certainly cannot.
how abt starting a conversation, what do we actually talk abt? this is truely a mind-boogling issue for me to ponder. past experience? hobby? ur life? my life? our current affairs? gossips? other people? hmm... even as the list goes on. wouldn't it ever gets bored and stagnant to keep on talking abt the same thing over and over again. so how long does it take to change into a different topic then? an hr? or two?
perhaps i am a man of few words. i am. i wun say tt i am a good conversationist. only the person who knows how to analysis. and yes. listen. i dun actually get it why sometimes we can talk for hours with a person on the same topic and stay silent with some ppl without a single approach to what to talk abt. i am a thinking person u see.
and just to add on, there are a thousand and one kind of conversation we can have. immature or nt? corny or nt? it's interesting. i mean we can hear ppl discussing abt current personal affairs, nonsensical teasing, abt self perspective, abt their love life, abt anything. the point is whether the conversation at least to me, is worth talking abt at all.
maybe tt's why i like to listen to conversation rather than particpate in one. i do talk. just tt most of the time, i prefer to listen and give constructive replies. or share my perspective in a mature manner. i do joke and tease ard. but u will never find me giving inconstructive unrealistic comment tt is way to comment. for example, a wad if something unrealistic bad things happen. i actually will laugh at the ppl who do tt. for their immaturity.
i actually realise tt my conversational topics often revolves ard np( nt tt i dun live a life), my life, ur life, philosophical aspects, human behaviour, giving advices to personal and relationship life, studies, habits, past experience and things ard me. ok, current affairs too. have been noticing for the past 24hrs. these are the topics i have approached. interestin to note how the topics of a coversation will reveal the personality of the person itself. amazing.
there are too much to blog. but i dun seems to have the desire to blog on. mentally drained from my papers. maybe i shall touch on this another day.
